We use the notation of Elementary Identities in a Real Inner Product Space and write 0Hβ for the zero vector of H. We prove claims 2 and 3 first; neither uses claim 1.
Claim 2. Suppose β¨x,zβ©=β¨x,zβ²β© for every xβH. By Elementary Identities in a Real Inner Product Space (i), β¨x,zβzβ²β©=0 for every xβH; taking x=zβzβ² gives β£zβzβ²β£2=β¨zβzβ²,zβzβ²β©=0, so zβzβ²=0Hβ by Elementary Identities in a Real Inner Product Space (iii), that is, z=zβ² by claim 2 of Elementary Identities in a Vector Space.
Claim 3. Suppose β(x)=β¨x,zβ© for every xβH. Then β is the map xβ¦β¨x,zβ©, whose norm is β£zβ£ by Elementary Properties of Bounded Linear Maps and Functionals on Real Inner Product Spaces (viii); hence β₯ββ₯=β£zβ£.
Claim 1. Let M=kerβ={xβH:β(x)=0}, a closed linear subspace of H by Elementary Properties of Bounded Linear Maps and Functionals on Real Inner Product Spaces (viii) together with Elementary Properties of Bounded Linear Maps and Functionals on Real Inner Product Spaces (vi). Let Mβ₯ be its orthogonal complement and PMβ the projection of Orthogonal Projection onto a Closed Linear Subspace of a Real Hilbert Space.
If M=H, then β(x)=0=β¨x,0Hββ© for every xβH by Elementary Identities in a Real Inner Product Space (ii), and z=0Hβ serves.
Otherwise choose wβH with wβ/M and put w0β=wβPMβw. By Orthogonal Projection onto a Closed Linear Subspace of a Real Hilbert Space (i) applied with x=w and z=PMβw, w0ββMβ₯. Moreover w0βξ =0Hβ: otherwise w=PMβwβM. Since Mβ©Mβ₯={0Hβ} by Orthogonal Projection onto a Closed Linear Subspace of a Real Hilbert Space (iv), w0ββ/M, that is, β(w0β)ξ =0, so β(w0β) has a multiplicative inverse.
Now let xβH and put xβ²=xββ(x)β(w0β)β1w0β. By the linearity of β (Bounded Linear Maps and Bounded Linear Functionals on Real Inner Product Spaces, and the Operator Norm (iii)), β(xβ²)=β(x)ββ(x)β(w0β)β1β(w0β)=0, so xβ²βM and therefore β¨xβ²,w0ββ©=0 because w0ββMβ₯ (and β¨xβ²,w0ββ©=β¨w0β,xβ²β© by symmetry). Expanding with Elementary Identities in a Real Inner Product Space (i),
0=β¨xβ²,w0ββ©=β¨x,w0ββ©ββ(x)β(w0β)β1β¨w0β,w0ββ©=β¨x,w0ββ©ββ(x)β(w0β)β1β£w0ββ£2.
Since w0βξ =0Hβ, β£w0ββ£2>0 by Elementary Identities in a Real Inner Product Space (iii) and claim 5 of Elementary Order Arithmetic in an Ordered Field, so it is invertible, and solving for β(x) gives
β(x)=β(w0β)(β£w0ββ£2)β1β¨x,w0ββ©=β¨x,zβ©,z=β(w0β)(β£w0ββ£2)β1w0β,
the last equality by Elementary Identities in a Real Inner Product Space (i). As z does not depend on x, this proves claim 1.